Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Brendan Thomas Kelly

Brendan (Dad) and Irene with Santa who has a striking resemblance to my grandfather but I am told by Dad was the Santa at McCleary's in Dublin.
December of 1946/7 is the date  according to himself.

He had spent the War years in Sligo with his Grandparents, as his folks were sure Hitler would bomb Dublin, either by mistake or design. He was 6 months old when they took him down to the farm, and he didn't return to Dublin till the war was over.

1st Christmas in America 1957: 
Irene, Brendan and Mary.

After arriving in the United States, Dad and Irene were up in the Catskills and were speaking with a woman from Ireland. She told the two she had been in America for over 15 years. The siblings looked at one another laughing:
"Sure, we'll never be here that long!"


Patrick, Brendan and Ned



Atop the Zugsplitz.




This is the first picture I ever saw of my father in uniform. He served in the US Army during the Vietnam years as a corpsman in Heidelberg. 


Brendan Kelly looking out over no-man's land
Berlin 1964/5

 Mom joined him in Germany after they married and they traveled to Berlin for a visit while assigned in Heidelberg. Mom headed to her parents' farm in Ireland to have Dee in Sept 1965 and Dad joined them there at the end of his service.

The family of three returned to the Bronx where I was born the following March.



In the Maher backyard in Blauvelt, Marion Maher is Dad's first cousin.



Easter morning in our new dresses with our new purses. Mom made the dresses and matching capes and Grandpa Kelly bought our purses and filled them with candy.



Dad in The Pilgrim Monument in Provincetown
 in Cape Cod 1973/74


This is dad outside the cabin we rented for the week at Cape Cod



Dad is holding baby Teresa- this was the 1976 visit to Fairfield Ohio. 




All the Kellys on Christmas day at 251


Family Portrait 1981 just in time for Christmas- I am wearing my confirmation dress.

Christmas 1989 

1993 was a good year. Ellen married Tommy and 251 Hollywood got new wall to wall carpeting.


  The Kelly family with Teresa and Dennis at Granny's apartment


               Mom, Irene, Dad and Granny

This is a picture of Eddie, Liz, Brendan, Ellen and Tommy 2008, when dad was in the Rehab center after his stroke. The stroke was the result of a plaque being loosened when he was having a heart stent placed.


May 2014, I stopped in to visit on my way back from Miami- I had gone down with Liz due to a family emergency.


Brendan and Victoria 2014 in front of the Florida homestead. Victoria has been Dad's home health aide for years.

2015 Visiting Jerry Nihan while I was on leave to take Dad for Radiation treatment. Dad had 9 weeks of therapy and we tried to keep his spirits up



May 2016- Eddie's Wedding in upstate New York- Dad walked with Sarah's mom down the aisle.


All the clan at Eddie and Sarah's wedding- a wonderful day

Today is Dad's 80th birthday so a thought I would share some of these memories.

Monday, April 29, 2019

Best Wedding ever


In 1994, I attended "THE BEST WEDDING EVER" when my sister married Tommy.

How can that be 25 years ago?

My sister found her dream dress and off the rack it fit like a glove. The fact that it cost less than my dress for the wedding still shocks me. But I loved my dress so it was totally worth it.

The place was amazing, the food was endless (though we danced so much most of us missed a few courses) and the music was inspirational.

We were surrounded by family and friends, old and new, and if I am being truthful, the party started the Wednesday before and didn't end till Monday morning.

It was an amazing night!

And the best was yet to come.

Happy Anniversary to both of you!